Keep me in your thoughts please.

[margaret]

Glad it went reasonably well, it can't have been easy and must have been a very surreal experience for you.

I know a guy with a tram hobby, he drives me mad with it: he's far worse than another friend with a bus hobby! I seem to have a few anorack friends!

Yes, you are right, it did seem all a bit surreal, the ex seemed like a stranger and his voice seemed to have changed, I don't mean exactly castrato but just a pitch higher/thinner , different to how I remembered it.

I have a sneaky suspicion that his last wife probably got fed up with his trams and it led to grounds for divorce. I bet you anything that was the case.

I too find trams boring, I like steam trains, but not like as you say anorak level.

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