It is very
catch 22. Those that finish up on the receiving end of vandalism are victims and are naturally very aggrieved at such behaviour. But at risk of giving the vandals an excuse for their actions, yes, some have come from backgrounds that are less desirable for bringing up young ones as in ....
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One would hope they have been 'offered' instruction by significant family or guardians. Unfortunately, it seems many young people are left to bring themselves up. There's a wealth of broken families, men who negate thier parental responsibility and woman who equally have the responsibility but come from poor role models themselves,so the result is what you see. Angry, confused young people with little or no direction or idea.
I am perhaps confusing the difference between
giving and
offering instruction. Raising little ones I tend to think that as they get older and keep within the set boundaries you extend the boundaries and so, for example, when they are really little, the ruling might be they would be in bed at an appropriate time, at the same time every night and as they get older that boundary is extended until such time as they can decide for themselves and so when they are little ones they are not really in a position to be offered instruction so much as being given instruction - obviously, in a balanced not a bully sense. When they are older, if they have never had that sort of background then possibly if they are offered instruction they may well tell you what to do with it.
No action and both sides of society suffer for it, albeit in different ways. It comes back to the same question on how to deal with it. They do indeed need direction and it may well come down to three things.
1. Financial resources.
2. People willing to undertake the task.
3. Willingness on the part of the young ones to participate.