I think the problem with all fertility treatment is that it becomes someones 'fault' if they cannot help. Before IVF if a couple could not have children, they just dealt with it. Yes, its a shame, but they could accept the reality of it and deal with it. I am not sure the pain (both physical and mental) that a couple goes through while while having fertility treatment can be justified.
Everyone seems to want to blame this poor chap because she can not now have children. It was the cancer that stopped her having children, not him.
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